weird questions~

Salam sisters and brothers..


Do you know how does it feel when you're meeting someone for the FIRST TIME.. let me just highlight that.. THE FIRST TIME and he starts asking you weird questions? or to be exact, questions that change your facial expression to like "huh?!?" or "what the *@&#&?!!?!" expressions, questions that freak you out..

I have been experiencing all these since the new semester started. Out of all the questions that have been asked, there is one question which I feared the most, "what is your room number?" I'll probably like "&#^*#^&@????????" ...

It happens all the time. Unfortunately, it also happens today. -_- I have accompanied a friend of mine whom I just met today during lunch to go to a xinjiang restaurant. As we enter it, all eyes are on us. I feel really uncomfortable, but then I have no other options because she wants to go there. We order our dish and then start eating it... there are muslims from Kyrgyzstan, sitting behind me and muslims from Yemen and some parts of the middle east on my left side (the ones that I'm totally afraid of..)

We finish our meals and plan heading back to our class. then someone stops us on the middle of the road and asks me:

"Are you Muslim?''

"Yes."

"where are you from?"

"Brunei."

"Are you married?"

"Do you have a boyfriend?"
(This is the only time when I seriously dream of having a boyfriend and say it loud and proud, clean and clear, straight to his face! "YES! I DO HAVE A BOYFRIEND!!" but then since I don't have.. then there is nothing to say.. I want to use someone.. but I think I will just give him more hopes.. which I don't want to :) Thus I didn't do it)

"Where do you live?"

"Students dorm." (starting to get anxious.. ~_~")

"What is your room number?" (totally freak out!!! *_*'')

I don't understand... ( its because he is asking in English.. I need to bohong sunat in order to save my life.. )

I walk really really fast.. feel like I am participating the walkathon.. huhuhu!! I can see he is following me.. Then I stay in one of my friend's class for a while. Jerry, who is standing just outside the door suddenly says, "I think he is searching for you, Jia Li. Cause I can see he's walking from one class to another, asking someone... seems like he is trying to find someone!"

My heart is just pounding really really fast.. I am seriously scared.. "Then, what are you doing there?? Lock the door!" he locks it and we don't make any sound for like 15 minutes. Someone knocks on the door but we don't open it. Until the door is being opened by our shushu, which ia pikir TERkunci.. sorry, our bad..

Class starts. As soon as the bell starts ringing, I get out of my class, run down the stairs and walk as fast as I can to get back to my room. Gosh.. what a day!

I talked with my friend on the phone the other day and told him that there is a lot of muslims coming to Dalian this year.. and he replied me, "really? hhmm~ just be careful B.. Watch out for those who come from the middle east countries like yemen, iran, etc etc.. cause it may be possible that they will tend to set their eyes on you if they see you. advise from me: don't wear make-ups, don't dress up, wear your specs, don't wear the contact lenses (don't you know that you can catch someone's attention just with your eyes? haha!), lusuh2 sikit bebaju atu, try to be a bit more boy-ish than lady -like.."

that is my looks for today: make-ups ( a bit :( just a bit.. banar~ like the one arh my msn dis pic), contact lenses, lady-like dress.. :S :S :S, I am seriously regretting it... sorry sorry for not listening, won't do it again.. start bsuk saya bebaju lusuh... I'm goin to go for the squared- scarf rather than the long scarf..i'm goin to wear specs (yang bagak atu bisai kali tu..)

Hopefully, tomorrow will be a better day for me.. with no tests nor challenges like today's... amin amin..

salam,
B.