women vs men

Salam~

My yesterday's class was having a discussion on the differences between men and women. But we did talk about women more than men. I guessed the guys are quite curious about us too ^^,

So basically it did raise up all sorts of questions and curiosities among us such as "Why women cry more than men? Are women more prone to being hurt than men? Do men afraid to get hurt too?" and so on.

Well, these questions are quite hard to answer. There are a lot of possibilities and assumptions to it.

Some people say that it is related to hormones, some say that it depends on the acceptance of the society it self (pretty much true~) and more.

At first, it was a little bit chaotic cause the guys and the girls were trying to defend themselves and they were not accepting any bad characters that were being thrown to them. ahaha! But then after some time, it was all good.

I'm just glad that I'm a pH 7 when it comes to this type of discussion.Like c'mon people~ why do you need to have discussions when you can't go for the 'give and take' principle? hhehe..

and so at the end of the discussion, on of the girls raised up a question, "do men cry too?" and so there was a sound of the mumbling bees for a few minutes.. (arguing as always..) haha.

But then if you ask me, I believe that they cry too.

Someone said to me once, "We men do cry. Its just that you people can't see it cause we cry inside. There will be a time when our inside are not sufficient enough to hold it, and when that time comes, then we'll cry like women always do and that is tearing up.."

P/s to Tiq: I think if I was in your shoes, I would be having the same decision as you do.. I'll respect it. Just be safe.. God Bless ya!

Love,

Jia Li